Can you tell us a bit about yourself?

I’m a very happy-go-lucky type of person, naturally. The real Michelle is bubbly, she is extremely social. I’m someone who has always been interested in sports and academics and travel, but particularly in the communities you can find through those things. 

At the University of Toronto, I was in a sorority, I was trying out for the varsity lacrosse team. But every single thing I wanted to do, every part of me that I wanted to share, eczema got in the way.

What challenges did you face due to eczema?

Everything was a challenge. From when I was a child, every time my eczema would flare, I would want to hide. It was just so visible. I remember being teased relentlessly at school, being called a reptile because my skin was so scaly. And so, throughout my life, when my skin was good, I would see my friends and want to meet new people. But, when my skin was bad, I would turn into a recluse, for weeks at a time.

In my mid-20s, I took a year off from school. I disappeared. I was depressed, I was scared, I was dealing with a lot of mental health challenges, brought on by the prospect of living the rest of my life like this.

Many eczema patients come to accept the symptoms they face. What advice would you give to anyone currently living with unresolved discomfort from eczema?

I would say that, as horrifying as this condition can be when it is bad, it’s actually possible to find a way to manage it. Eczema is a really complicated condition and the details are unique to each person who has it, so you have to be willing to try different approaches. What you’re going through now doesn’t have to be what you’re going through forever.

The other thing that’s critical is community. Social media is great for that and it’s probably what got me through the worst of it. Growing up, I never met another person who suffered with eczema the way I did. It was so isolating. And so it was extremely powerful for me to be able to connect with other people online who understood and could relate to what I was going through.

How can patients be their own advocates?

What’s probably most important is that people with eczema, especially children and their parents, be able to have open conversations with their healthcare providers about the research and the options that are out there.

Start by asking a lot of questions. What else can we try? How can we better understand what’s happening? What changes can I make? What’s the current state of the research? Having and asking these kinds of questions can only help you. It’s important to be an advocate for yourself, or your children, throughout the journey.

How have you helped support others living with eczema?

I volunteer today with with an organization that supports those living with eczema. I really took the time to figure out how I could help, because my heart breaks for everyone who is going through what I went through. I know how tough it is and I know how isolating it can be. 

My hope is that someday everyone with eczema will be able to have open informative conversations with their healthcare providers and get the help that’s right for them, when they need it. In the meantime, I’m also still very active on social media, trying to help those in the community who are in the thick of it, in the same way that they helped me.